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The Best And The Rest 63

Sep 4, 2008
4 min read

The logic is to leave a bad relationship.  But somehow, a gajillion people stay in B-A-A-A-D relationships, for whatever reason they may have.  They’re in so much pain, yet they keep coming back for more.  I’m not judging here, it’s a fact.  Well, here are some of their reasons. This is one of the best Top Tens EVER.  The entries were all so good, I couldn’t choose which ones to include!  I guess the best Top Tens are those where you guys send us stuff straight from the heart; when it comes from your own personal experiences.  LOVED this one.

May 20, 2008 → The Top Ten Reasons To Stay In A Bad Relationship

  1. No name – Because when I watch her sleeping, I can still see the girl I fell in love with, before it all went bad.

  2. D.vet – You stay because you found love, even if it’s not the love that you wanted.

  3. No name – It’s like I just don’t want to end it until the relationship dies a natural death.

  4. Jijipong – Because the sex is crazily good.

  5. Amber – I once heard this from a neighbor: “Wag mo na pakawalan yan, kasi baka wala ka nang ibang makita pa ulit!”

  6. Farrah – Because I don’t want to fight all the time with any other man except him.

  7. Purplerose – My friend’s reason: “Sayang naman yung 10 years.”

  8. Veronica sierra – As long as I can still bear the pain.

  9. Nico Loco – Because he is my best friend AND my business partner.

  10. Jigs – She swallows.

  11. Gorgeous Bitch – Because you’re too stubborn to admit that, once again, you failed.

  12. No name – A friend once said she stayed with her boyfriend even if he was cheating because she would rather be miserable with him, than be miserable without him.

  13. Twylyt – Pinasok ko, kaya paninindigan ko.

  14. Charlie – Some people simply think that love is SUPPOSED to hurt.

  15. JT – I have a friend. The guy is very babaero. And we ask her, kung bakit ayaw niya pang hiwalayan? She replied, “Kasi siya yung naka-una…”

  16. Marcus – When you’d be worse off if you quit than if you keep doing it.

  17. Purplerose – “Magbabago naman sya pag ikinasal na kami.”

  18. ACER -Because I accept the fact that I’m responsible for 50% of what makes it a bad relationship.

  19. Tiffany – Because he’s the best father my kid could ever have…even if he’s a lousy husband.

  20. Jijipong – Okay na rin at least I have her platinum credit card extension.

  21. No name – Kasi ayaw ko magpatalo sa asawa niya.

  22. Rael/JV/Spy Shadow/LanceLUST – It’s the free sex.

  23. Öta – Because zero sex is worse!

  24. Toni – Because there’s no guarantee that I’ll find better.

  25. Gorgeous Bitch – Because even if he makes you the most miserable person in the world, he is also the only one who makes you the happiest.

  26. Dyosa – Because I get to be dominant. He takes care of our house, children, laundry, etc. And I don’t get nagged when I come home late.

  27. Cookai – Because he loves me more than I love him.

  28. Argueliz – Because there are no bad relationships. Only people with unrealistic expectations.

  29. ALLE – So that there’ll be no thoughts of: “Maybe if I tried a little harder, it might have worked.”

  30. Karen of Cainta – Because I’m a coward.

  31. Abegail – Because he makes me feel loved, whenever he’s not hurting me.

  32. Espeks – Because I hate the idea of starting the whole process all over again.

  33. Vie/Luvh8s – I don’t want to have a broken family.

  34. Espeks – Because she’s always there when nobody else will.

  35. Coachdanny – Her dad is an alumnus of a top UAAP school and gets season tickets to Ateneo games (lower box) and he is a manager of one company that has a PBA team and he is given upper box season tickets. For a basketball fan that’s great.

  36. May 5264 – How do you say goodbye to someone who has NEVER deliberately hurt you, no matter how often he does it?

  37. Leitox – Because love has no boundaries.

  38. Angel of my Life – I’d stay in a bad relationship to hurt him more.

  39. Louise – A friend once told me that she’s staying in a bad relationship because he’s the best looking guy she’s ever been with. Sayang naman daw. If they have kids at least cute.

  40. Jaja – My mom just can’t end their more than 30 years of marriage kasi baka daw ikamatay pa ng dad ko & she’s not prepared to carry that in her conscience for the rest of her life.

  41. Mr. Perk – If you’ve accepted the fact that you’re simply  just one of those people who were destined to be in a bad relationship.

  42. V55 – Kasi sa relationship namin, ako yung bad. Plus, she’s the first “shaved” woman I was ever with.

  43. Prince_Fireside – At least I won’t be alone on dates like Xmas, New Year & Valentines. Besides, I can always ditch the bad relationship if a better person comes along.

  44. Powerful Alice – Sadista siya, masokista ako…parang bagay na din.

  45. Chino – She’s too dependent on me, as if she can’t breath w/o me. Kawawa naman if I leave her.

  46. Mikimoto – Because it was I who screwed up the best I ever had.

  47. Bing – Because his dad has cancer. And I’m the only one he can count on to stand by his side through all this.

  48. Gorgeous Bitch – Because some are born lucky…and some aren’t.

  49. Cheyenne – Because you stand by the vows you made when you were married.

  50. Bennett – The worse the fight, the better the make up sex.

  51. Marie – If the amount of love you get still exceeds the amount of pain.

  52. Gorgeous Bitch – Because your stupid heart said so!

 
 
 

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