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The Best And The Rest 54
Everyday we make a choice. From something so mundane that we don’t even realize that we’re making a choice (like choosing Spenda or Equal in our coffee), or something that life-changing that feels like a drill to an exposed nerve (like staying or leaving a difficult relationship).
May 1, 2008 → The Top Ten Tough Choices
Jan – I am 25 years old. How do I tell my family that the man I recently married is also married to a gay man…somewhere outside the country.
Maricel – I’m in my early 30s: smart and gorgeous, but still single. I’m torn between marryng my rich gay bestfrend who adores me, or wait for my suitor to get an annulment.
Venti – Mahirap magpaliwanag or magsabi ng totoo sa taong ayaw maniwala s iyo.
Thoryan – I’m not the real son of my parents right now and sometimes my mother asks me if I’d like to go and find my real parents just to see them.
Thoryan – Choosing if I should have sex finally, even just once…or not. They’ve been calling me gay because of that.
Dongster – Everyday I make a difficult decision on what food to eat because I have hypertension and I’m almost diabetic.
Bards – My wife earns a lot more than I do, hence she got to pay majority of our family expenses including some luxuries. This puts me in agony and I surrendered some of the major decisions like the design of our house, choice of school for the kids, etc. A few weeks ago, a friend who knows my situation is offering me a job in the States that will pay me a respectable amount. Taking this job will mean being away from my family for years. This is a dilemma.
Marchiechay – Should I go back to church (born again) & break my (Catholic) parents’ heart or not? Who should obey, God or my mom?
Fiona – It’s difficult to tell my fiance…that I wanted to postpone the wedding, just because I still need another year of being single and wanted some time away from him. I feel it’s the best way to confirm if I really want to spend the rest of my life with him.
V54 – I can’t decide – a date with my girl (50 transpo, 315 short time, 200 meal; total = 565) or self-help (koryente lang gastos and a porn DVD).
Draco’s Biatch – To choose between being the cool & smart but lonely girl who never conformed, or be the NORMAL & stupid girl who took the chance & had a lovelife & sexlife.
No name – It’s tough whether to stay with a guy who’s not married but has a child or with a guy who’s married but childless.
No name – As a single mom & working in shifts at a hospital, it’s always difficult to choose between my son, when he’s sick, & and the call of duty. It pains me to do my job taking care of other people when I can’t even be there for my sick son. If only things aren’t financially hard for us, I’d choose a job where I can have more flexible time to spend with my son.
Coverboy – If I should keep going out with a woman who hasn’t had closure with the father of her child and still hopes they’ll be together everytime he visits from the U.S.
Jose de vengenge – I don’t know how to tell my family na kickout na ko sa UP. I just found about it yesterday but already had an idea when the last sem ended. Everytime they tell me na ako lang ang makakaahon sa kanila, it kills me. I don’t know if I’d tell them and break their hearts or just pretend that everything’s fine, enroll in another school or find a job.
A.C. – I’m not sure whether or not to tell my family that the father of my 3-yr-old son is my 1st degree cousin. He got married & had another girl pregnant wen I was 7 months pregnant.
Dra. Lee – I can’t decide if I should believe my friend who’s telling me that my boyfriend is a bisexual or not. I’m really in a dilemma!
Pareng Macke – I don’t know if I should tell my parents that I have 100% discount in our school for 2 yrs because I’m varsity. They thought it was only a 25% discount.
Energy Elf – Leave my self centered wife and mother-in-law w/ my 2 wonderful sons. Or stay in the relationship for the sake of our kids.
RC N CESS – A choice between whether or not telling my sister that my parents are divorcing. She’s busy wrapping up her nursing degree and I wouldn’t know how to deal with it.
SPY Shadow – Until now, me and wife are still wondering what the hell is smaller, ‘kakatiting’ or ‘kakarampot’?
Atlantis/Crammer – Choosing between my 2 sexualities. It’s like between Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie.
YñaKì – If you guys were me, will you tell your wife NOW that you have a 20-year old kid from your ex?
Jose de vengenge – Kung magpapaano ba ko ng ano dahil sobrang ano, o hayaan ko nalang silang maano pag nagaano kami?
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