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Would I say that I was happier when I was single, at least happier than now, when I’m a “double”?  Actually, no.  I won’t lie and say I was happier, bacause I’m definitely happier now, since I have someone to go thrugh life with.  Buy the point is, I could’ve been happier, or at least just as happy, if I was happy with myself.  The cause of my unhappiness was not my being alone, it was the self-loathing that was killing me, since I had to be with the same person everyday, and I didn’t really like him: myself.

October 16, 2008 → The Top Ten Tips On How To Be A Happy Singleton – Kendzee

1. Jose de vengenge – Pag malas sa pag-ibig, suwerte sa career.

2. Hajime – A heart can be happy in its solitude.  It ain’t so bad…sanayan lang yan!

3. Astroboy – Chocolate is said to contain “phenylethylamine”, the same chemical your brain produces when you’re in love. So kung wala kang lovelife, chocolate na lang!

4. Kaboosh22 – We can be happy once we stop questioning why life can’t be perfect and just accept the world just the way it is.

5. AJ – Okay lang ang single, basta maraming ka-mingle.

6. Kid Bukid/Abelski – Isipin mo nalang, pag single ka, wala kang biyenan!

7. Dorrknob – I learned to love being single. I took advantage and enjoyed every minute of it. And that, according to my now husband, is what made me so attractive. 🙂

8. Lheng – Wala mang dumadagdag na saya, at least wala ring dumdagdag ng problema.

9. SPY Shadow – Sa travelling, maganda ang single, para “baggage” mo lang ang iintindihin mo.

10. Astroboy – (From Sex and the City) “Maybe our girlfriends are really our soulmates and that men are just part of the fun…”

11. Mylene – A recent survey of 30-year-olds showed that smart men are mostly married, and smart women stay mostly single.

12. Morenang Kaligatan – Do you want to be like me? May boyfriend nga, miserable naman.

13. Jun13 – “Life may n0t be the party we h0ped for, but while we’re here, we might as well dance.”

14. Loi Mas Pogi – No one is born a couple. We are born single, therefore complete.

15. SC – Let go of the thought that being in a relationship is the key to happiness, because it simply isn’t.

16. SC – The best feeling in the world is realizing you are perfectly happy even without the thing you thought you needed the most.

17. SC – If happiness is a choice, then so is loneliness.

18. Chinese Cowboy/Specialist/Kristen – Being single means more money for yourself.

19. Ever – Being happy is our job. Don’t wait for someone else to make you happy.

20. Pinay Goddess – You will never be alone if you have family and friends.

21. Geyp – Stop treating being single as a negative.

22. Geyp – Sumama lagi sa couple friends mo na laging nag-aaway, para you’ll feel better not having to go through that.

23. Geyp – Isipin mo na lang: ang mataba pumapayat, ang may sakit gumagaling, ang single puwedeng maging attached. Eh ang pangit? Yun ang talagang kawawa!