Let’s don’t be a victim <3

I’m having this feeling. This feeling that the more I allow myself to be comfortable with any situation and more stronger and calm I’m staying, the more crazy situations I’m getting. Maybe that’s just the way I like it. More dramatic way. I have to say sometimes even I’m forgetting that this is the way I like it. And I’m asking: “Universe! Why???? Why me?” But I’m having less and less of those moment as I’m realizing, that everything is just perfect. It’s exactly what I needed in that moment and if I pay enough attention I can understand the patterns. I can see myself from another perspective. I can stay in the middle of this drama that is happening around me and keep my balance and respect towards myself. I think many people is having this tendency to slip into the role of victim. It’s easy: “I can’t do anything. The whole world is against me. Others are mean to me. I want to be happy, but it’s just not possible, because of others…” I’m having my little victim inside of me as well. The little myself was hurt. And now I have to break this pattern. Because it’s comfortable to be a victim, but there are some cons. The biggest one is that you are powerless. Powerless when someone is shouting on you, powerless when you can’t say no to others, powerless when you have to deal with authorities… I have to say – it sucks. But thanks to universe that is letting me experience it and thanks to myself, I can also feel how is it to get this power back. Imagine someone is shouting on you and you are trying not to laugh loudly, because you are imagining, that this all is an improvisation theater play and you are just an actor who can choose any role. It’s safe. You cannot get hurt. And not just that! You can even have a lot of fun! Try it on your own and tell me how it feels! This is just an example so you can imagine: “You are crazy! Why did you do this to me? You are terrible person!” “Oh? Really? I didn’t notice that! I thought I’m the most beautiful and amazing being in this universe! And I thought I’m the best singer as well!” “WTF are you talking about! You are terrible singer! And your new hairstyle is ugly.” “That’s misunderstanding, sir! You still haven’t noticed my real pottencial. And I talk to my hair every day and they’ve been telling me, that they grow the best way they can! Do you want to talk to them? I’ll arrange you a meeting.” “?????” So I’m highly recommending to say goodbye to your little victim. Be creative! Play. Life is not what it seems to be like. It’s a playground. So get your power back and finally enjoy the ride with the steering wheel in your hands.